no matter what we do, children are definitely their own and make decisions.

i teach my son "you make your choices, you'll take your consequences, whether you know it or not", i.e. some people are not even aware of their consequences, nor that those consequences are related to their choices. they just think they're on TV.

*that* is the key to making a lesson received not become a lesson lost.

if you learn the lesson, don't lose it.

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